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  1. EARN THIS

Lyrics

[Verse 1]
Need a ride? I’m at your door
Midnight calls, I’ve taken more
Drama breaking down your home—
I showed up so you weren’t alone

Pick an outfit, lift your head
Pep talks when your hope was dead
Swiped my card when yours declined
Canceled life to give you mine
[Pre-Chorus]
But who fills me up when I’m running low?
Who hears my silence or tells me “don’t go”?
I gave it all and got half back
This time—I’m done with that
[Chorus]
I’m not a maybe, never an option
I’m not your pause, your safety caution
Not a backup plan, not second best
I’m the love you crave but never kept
I know my worth—it’s loud and clear
If you want this kind of man, be near
You want my heart, my time, my kiss?
Then step up…
And earn this
[Verse 2]
Now I think before I reach
I don’t rush in—I let life teach
I don’t chase what pulls me thin
If it drains me, I don’t let it in

I don’t lend what breaks my stride
No more guilt when I don’t ride
I ask myself, “What’s this cost?”
If I give again, what gets lost?
[Chorus]
I’m not a maybe, never an option
I’m not your pause, your safety caution
Not a backup plan, not second best
I’m the love you crave but never kept
I know my worth—it’s loud and clear
If you want this kind of man, be near
You want my heart, my time, my kiss?
Then step up…
And earn this
[Bridge]
Don’t just run to me when your world shakes
I break too—just hide it in quieter ways
The strong ones fall, we bleed, we bend
We just don’t always say it when we need a friend

Call me first, not when things crash
Show me love that isn’t just reactive or fast
I need touchpoints, loyalty, truth
I’ve lifted enough—can you hold me too?
[Outro Verse]
I won’t beg to be chosen, won’t fight to be seen
If love can’t meet me where I stand, it’s not for me
I’ve earned my peace, I’ve earned my ground
I know what I bring—I won’t water it down

So call it pride or call it truth
But I’ve got nothing left to prove
This heart’s not free, it’s not dismissed
You want a love like mine?
Earn this.
[Final Chorus – Reprise]
I’m not a maybe, not just convenience
Not your half-time or last-minute lenience
Not a placeholder, not your regret
I’m the one you lost, the one you’ll never forget

So if you want me, come correct
Bring your truth, bring your respect
No more guessing, no more risk
You want this fire?
Earn this.